"Knowledge is more than an accumulation of information. It involves the ability to view that information with the right perspective and to use it for its proper end... It is the fear of the Lord that gives us the right perspective and prompts us to use it for the right end...Our main goal should be to glorify God. That is the ultimate goal to which all knowledge should be directed. Regardless of how helpful an item or body of knowledge may be to society, if it does not have as its final purpose the glory of God, it remains defective."
- Jerry Bridges The Joy of Fearing God
Well, hoorah! I have finally finished Chapter 3 of the first CM book. I'm only a third of the way through the book and it's almost Thanksgiving! I'm hoping to read A Pocketful of Pinecones and A Charlotte Mason Companion before the new year. LOL, we'll see! :) Certainly they'll be faster reads than Home Education has been.
Truthfully, though, this most recent chapter was a fast and relatively easy read for me. It was absolutely stellar. Not without fault, but, I read it with wholehearted agreement and enjoyment. Having already discussed the importance of exercise, rest, nutrition, fresh air, sunshine, and long hours in nature regarding the education of young children, Charlotte goes on to elaborate upon the importance of habit.
If we thought at first that CM was a bit wishy-washy in this area - remember taking care to not encroach upon the child's personality? - she puts all doubts to rest here in this third chapter. Her basic premise is that the difference between a good education and an exemplary education is the formation of habits within the child. She acknowledges the power and persuasiveness of nature in all human beings, adults and children alike. However, she asserts that, "If that be true, strong as nature is, habit is not only as strong, but tenfold as strong." There is no excuse in an "inherently" inattentive child, a boisterous child, an excessively emotional child. "It rests with parents and teachers to lay down lines of habit"...
This is not to say that the child has no individual will. CM is not talking about assertions of our wills in this section of the book. She is referring to the countless little things we do daily without thinking or willfully choosing, which largely make us into the men, women, or children we are. Are we habitually late or punctual? Habitually cheerful or melancholy? Habitually truthful or prone to exaggeration? And so on.
"...the habits of the child produce the character of the man..."
That is, really, what she is getting at. Educating a child, or attempting to educate him, without also training him in areas of character will produce only a half-satisfactory education - regardless of the method you use. A child prone to letting his mind wander will do so whether reading Shakespeare or A.A. Milne. A child satisfied with clumsy work will not produce careful and beautiful handwriting whether he write a Bible verse or the alphabet. Careful and watchful training in habit and character is essential.
She has some wonderfully practical words for mothers on building positive habits in children. Habits of courtesy, cleanliness, orderliness, a sense of honor, duty, etc. She exhorts mothers to go about training the habits of their children in a bright and positive mood - one of expectation and not reproach. What a seasoned word! How easy it is to simply get fed up with undesirable habits instead of methodically and gently retraining those habits by replacing them with positive ones!
I found this to be such an excellent, excellent chapter for any mother to read. As I said, not without its faults, but certainly the 'meat' tips the scales, and the bones are few and far between. I am so pleased with her thoughts on forming character in children, just as I have been about her thoughts on the out-of-doors life. I have no reservations in agreeing that training children toward what they ought to do regardless of what they feel naturally inclined to do is a major battleground in Christian parenting. What well-placed admonition and encouragement!
Well I had quite the epiphany the other day whilst reading Miss Mason's second chapter. In it, she recommended getting outside for three hours each day during the winter months. She also recommended accomplishing this by going outdoors for one and a half hours in the morning and another one and a half in the afternoon. That's when it hit me! In all this talk about four to six hours out-of-doors every day from April to October, she didn't necessarily mean four to six hours in a row! Ah, it makes it all seem so much more attainable and, might I add, sane? Four to six hours in the summer months (during daylight savings) isn't really all that hard when you break it up. See, look...
Morning playtime in backyard - 1 hour
Lunch outside - 1/2 hour
Walk around neighborhood after lunch - 1/2 hour
Afternoon playtime in backyard - 1 hour (Joy napping in house after walk)
Late afternoon trip to park, trails, pond, etc. - 2 hours
Hour with Daddy outside after dinner - 1 hour (still light in the summertime!)
So we wind up with 4 hours on days we just can't get to a park or nature center, and 6 full hours on days we can. Punkin naps at home! In fact, we don't even need to leave home until after her nap. Now, I do think CM probably thought 4 hours at a stretch was a good thing, and some days it might be, even for us. But, it sure seems more realistic when it's broken down a bit. Don't worry, y'all, I'm not going to start logging "minutes outside" to make sure I get my minimum in ;) I think it's useful, though, to see how just a little schedule tweaking here and there could really add up to a lot of time outdoors. I am convinced it's a good thing for the girls and their Mama.
... that this is just a blog. It's not real life. Because I want the posts and photos I share to encourage and inspire our readers, I don't often write about the negative, discouraging times. Believe me, though, they are there. Every day. By the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ, we are sinful people striving to live lives of obedience that glorify Him and to love one another. Anything good is all of His grace and all of His work in us. Let God Almighty have the glory.